Living with the Clarks
by
Andrew Clark
A child of famous parents is accustomed to people saying
things like: “You must have had a really different-unusual-extraordinary-intense-intellectual-stimulating
upbringing.” Partly to fob off, partly to be contrary, my stock
response has been: “Well, they were my parents so it seemed pretty
normal to me.” But this riposte has been a tad disingenuous.
From early on I knew our family was different. The level
and range of conversation, eclectic quality of the visitors, and encouragement
of ideas, marked us as separate in 50’s Australia - the era of “unleavened
bread,” as my father once referred to it. Our home was different,
too. It was a modern house that had a family that in some ways lived in
an earlier era, and in others transcended time - in the sense of period.
But our family was also very Australian. There was no
sense of national alienation. Unlike some academic families during the
50’s, we did not behave like a transplanted offshoot of the Bloomsbury
Group or the Cliveden set. Cricket, football (the AFL variety), golf,
quoits, table tennis, shooting, fishing, playing cards – all featured
strongly. So, too, did working in the large family garden – chopping
wood, mowing the lawn, cutting the edges, or, even more unpopular, collecting
stones.
But to capture the atmosphere at home during that time
it is first necessary to go outside it. We grew up in post-war Canberra
– an unusual environment. Until about 1960 the population of Canberra
remained stable at about 35,000 people. It was spread-out, bushy, and,
judged by today’s standards, pretty quiet. But it wasn’t a
bush town. In that small city was Parliament House, the federal public
service, the Australian National University and Canberra University College
– where my father taught – the diplomatic corps, Mt Stromlo
Observatrory, a couple of major CSIRO operations, Duntroon Military College,
Fairbairn RAAF base and HMAS Harman, and one of the best independent newspapers
in Australia, The Canberra Times.
Throwing the remarkable people who populated these various
institutions together gave Canberra intellectual vitality and independence.
Some of those disparate elements, seasoned by foreign heavyweights, temporarily
merged at home. My parents were generous, creative entertainers. I recall
playing marbles with R.H. (Religion and the Rise of Capitalism) Tawney,
and being at the same dinner table as another famous UK historian, Asa
Briggs, and listening as Dad had coffee and conversation with Isiah Berlin.
Dinner guests included Paul Haseluck, Rear Admiral Alan McNicoll, Alec
Hope and Geoffrey Fairbairn, and author Judah Waten. The great poet, grazier,
and life force, David Campbell, who was a close friend of my father, was
often around. Then there were people in the history department who Dad
was extremely close to, like Don Baker.
My mother, Dymphna Clark, gave our house its unique tone.
She combined a remarkable standard of scholarship and inquiry, with astonishing
domestic energy. Way ahead of her time, Mum was a recycler. Scraps from
the kitchen became feed for the chooks, or compost in the garden. Orange
peel was boiled up and sugared to become orange sweets, Mum made her own
ginger beer, all our eggs came from our chook house, the vegetables from
the garden, and many of the fish were caught on the far South Coast.
Life was not always harmonious. My mother worked extremely
hard, with six children, a lot of entertaining, and working with Dad on
his history, and on teaching German and doing translation work. There
were six children, with a span of 18 years, so for about 23 years my mother
had babies or young children to look after. My father was lively, playing
cricket and football with us, working in the garden, often fishing with
fruiends. But he was not a strong man, and suffered from ailments, and
in the last 20 years of his life, was debilitated by a weak heart.
But there was a vitality at home that was rare. There
was also enormous pride in each other’s achievements. There was
Dad’s writing and teaching, Mum’s translation work and increasing
involvement in environmental and indigenous issues, my sister, Katerina’s,
remarkable academic career, and the other children’s achievements.
Conversation was fast, informed, and often witty. It could be sarcastic
at times, but never cutting, and I never once heard a derogatory comment
about anyone based on race, religion, financial status, political affiliation,
or social position. Ours was a uniquely non-catty household.
There was a fairly regular pattern. In his earlier years
Dad would go off to the University to teach. Later, he would write from
about 8 a.m. until lunch, and then go to the university. Later still,
he would write in the morning and afternoon, then read, walk, chat, work
in the garden, or often go out with Mum in the evenings. Mum would complete
her domestic duties with extraordinary dispatch, then do some translation
work, teaching, writing or other activity.
There are strong memories of home, many of them priceless
and good.
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